Sex Talks

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The definitive guide to creating the sex life of your wildest dreamsjust by talking about it!from sexpert couple Vanessa and Xander Marin.

Why is it so hard to talk about sex, even with the person who regularly sees you naked?

You know communication is important in a relationship, but you just dont know how to get started with such a sensitive subject. Maybe youve never talked about sex at all, and the thought of it makes your palms sweat. Or youre feeling so disconnected from your partner that sex is the last thing on your mind. Maybe youre too scared to be honest about what you really want. Or you have no freaking clue what you want, so youre not sure how to tell your partner anything helpful!

Sex Talks is here to change that. Together, sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband, Xander, show you that the best thing you can do for your sex life doesnt even involve taking off your clothes.

Sex Talks covers the five essential conversations every couple needs to have:
1. Acknowledgement: a.k.a. Sex is a thing, and we have it.
2. Connection: a.k.a. What do we need to feel connected to each other?
3. Desire: a.k.a. What do we each need to get turned on?
4. Pleasure: a.k.a. What do we each need to feel good?
5. Exploration: a.k.a. What should we try next?

With gripping storytelling and an intimate peek at what really goes on behind other couples closed bedroom doors, Vanessa and Xander share their successful advice that has already helped hundreds of thousands. Sex Talks provides you with the sex education you wish youd had, plus the tried-and-tested tools you need to create the sex life of your wildest dreams.

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Sex Talks, by Simon & Schuster is available to order online, and for in-store pickup at our shop in Port Townsend, WA.

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