October 28, 2021

Dear Vespertine #1 - Inquisitive Individual

By Danielle Ferguson
Dear Vespertine #1 - Inquisitive Individual

Dear Inquisitive Individual,

This question is, by far, one of the most frequently asked questions we receive. The short answer is: ABSOLUTELY!

Many of the shops you find in the intimacy sector (aka sex shops) have presented themselves through the male gaze and not everyone feels comfortable shopping in them. Vespertine was designed through the female gaze and our goal was to create a space where EVERYONE could come in and shop and feel comfortable and safe enough to ask questions that, oftentimes, are very personal. We are catering to a lot of different preferences, and we are a feminine expression of those things but that doesn’t mean we think all women are feminine - women can be masculine and men can be feminine. 

Although many of our products do put women first (especially women with vulvas), we curate products for all bodies. We welcome men in the shop all of the time, we carry male anatomy products and many men have shared that they have felt very supported and surprised that they felt comfortable enough to ask questions that they haven’t felt comfortable asking in other intimacy shops. 

The experience that we have curated is one that revolves around inclusivity, lifelong body care and sexual health. We are sex positive. We are age positive. We are body positive. We are gender positive. 


Do YOU have a question? We want to hear from you!

Send questions to: DearVespertine@VespertineBoutique.com

*This series is designed to entertain and inform - not provide medical advice. You should always consult your doctor when it comes to your physical health.

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